A friend (17) has been dating a guy (26); they are both virgins. Now he wants her to help him discharge all his excess sperm with sex. He has promised marriage.
So you are wondering whether this 17-year-old 'friend' should agree to have this man use her body as a receptacle for his 'accumulated sperm'.
Boys start producing sperm from about age 12 or 13.
Assuming that this man is telling the truth and he is a virgin, then your friend is about to receive about 13 years' worth of sperm. Where would it go? What would she do with it?
This man is lying to her and I suspect he chose her because she is much younger than him.
Statutory rapeWomen's bodies are not receptacles for excess sperm. If your friend isn't ready to have sex with this man, or any man for that matter, she should wait and let any boyfriend know what her plan is.
She might also consider dating boys her own age because she will find that they are easier to deal with. At 17, she is not an adult.
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